Why do I attract emotionally abusive men? :( Please Help!?

Sorry to say, but most guys are like that. Girls mature way faster than guys, therefore girls are willing to settle down with one guy earlier. However, guys will do whatever they want until they are ready to settle down. So maybe you might want to date an older mature guy? It is hard for anyone to find a guy who will not cheat. Every girl goes through it. It isn't just you. You will eventually find a guy who will not want to cheat on you. It takes time.